What are Swinger Couples?
‘Swinger couples’ – what image immediately springs to mind when you hear this term? Is it a bunch of hairy people from the 70s wearing cheap gowns and smoking like chimneys getting it on in a seedy looking motel room? Once upon a time this may have been a (slightly exaggerated fact), however today you’d be hard pressed to pick an average swinger couple out of a crowd. In fact, your neighbour might even be doing it, or your doctor, or your children’s school Principal. There’s really no way of telling!
It’s not like the swinging lifestyle is the sexy seedy version of ‘Fight Club’ – it’s just that the majority of swinger couples value discretion and don’t have it written on a T-shirt for everyone far and wide to know what they are getting up to in the bedroom (or the swingers club, or their sexy friend’s house etc.). Just like everyone else out there, swinger couples generally like to keep their sex life private. That old saying ‘it’s the quiet ones you have to watch’ might even have some merit, and you may find that the more in-your-face out there characters are those least likely to be willing to give threesomes, swinging, group sex and swingers club a go. Again, there’s really no way of telling.
While discretion is valued, some swinger couples are open about being a part of the swinger lifestyle, but that doesn’t mean that they feel the need to jump up at the staff meeting and announce that they enjoy partner swapping and engaging in group play at sex parties on a Friday night. Many swingers couples have families and professional jobs that they obviously would like to remain separate from their sex life.
Not interested one bit in dipping your toes in the swinging lifestyle? Totally fine! You certainly don’t need to be worried that swinger couples will try and convert you to their way of living – swinger couples are more interested in those that are on the same page as them and don’t feel any pressure to engage in any sort of sexual activity. They want to know that every person involved in any sexy play is there because they absolutely 100% want to be. No one is going to try and force you to try swinging.
If you do have an inkling those 5 couples that emerged from your neighbours house late last Saturday night wearing sexy club dresses and looking slightly dishevelled weren’t there for the bingo night that was mentioned, fear not! Even if they are into group sex, swinging, wife swapping, cuckold play or such, rest assured they’re probably more than having their needs met on adult dating sites that cater to the swinging lifestyle. They have no need to recruit – and probably also wouldn’t want to muddy the waters – so close to home.
